I’m conflicted…

Hey,

I’ve been wondering for a while how to write this. I’m so conflicted. Im forever talking about how I’m proud to be plus size and how being a curvy lady makes me who I am.


I am a big believer in body positivity but I’ve come to the realisation…

I should lose some weight.


This is where the conflict arises because I get dozens of messages telling me that I look lovely and I don’t need to and some would argue that I can’t be BoPo if I want to change myself but in all honesty, the reason for this is simple.

Soon, I’ll be trying to conceive. Being as healthy as I can be can only be good for me. Plus, if for any reason I struggle conceive and need medical help, they will tell me to lose weight first.


I used to be slimmer but I wasn’t happier


Having had a miscarriage, it does worry me that my weight may have contributed to that. I’ll forever cheer on my other plus pals but it’s time for me to make a change…

I guess all that’s left to say is watch this space…

Kat xx